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Some things have changed within me somethings are not the same.
Well it seems that after the recent Hantsfurs meet that I've made a discovery, I have become disillusioned with the Furry Fandom. I don't know if it's me or just the level of retardation in the furs that seem to be popping up like Rabbits but this has definatly impacted my view of the fandom. I never really do much within the fandom and the only furs I hang out with are mostly not the general sterotypical fur rather they are furs but are generaly something else too and therefor being a fur doesn't count as there major defining aspect. I am a fur but I'm also this that and the other but more importantly I am happy with who I am and I will gladly tell anyone who asks that I'm a Fur but not one of those who tend to make up the majority of the fandom. I personaly think that "Yiffing" is retarded the entire concept is foolish just call it sex for crying out load. I also think fursuit sex is silly don't get me wrong good well made fursuits are awesome but I'd rather beable to feel the touch of the person I'm having SEX with. Maybe I've just become jaded but when I feel uneasy walking around town with the Hantsfurs like last Saturday because lets face it in London it's acceptible for furs to draw attention to themselves because that is what goes on at the londonfur meets but Southampton is a different story. I just started thinking "Wow now I can see why we get a bad rep it's because of all the stupid furs that draw attention to themselves".
The thing is I have no problem with people being themselves, Hell I gladly wear my tail to the Dungeon from time to time but at the Dungeon you don't get people shouting "FURFAG" at you because there's probably weirder people than you there. I know I may seem a bit hypocritical because while I have no problem with peole being who they are they should also realise that there is a time and a place for it and it isn't in public. maybe I just found the more mature furries in Southampton and they stamped out most of the retard that was in me and now I've become like them bitter and jaded that the very fandom that accepted me for who I am has become full of stupid immature assholes that like to make drama and bite the hand that feeds them so to speak. I mean while we we're at The London Hotel pub last Saturday there was conversations going on that the other normal people in the pub didn't want to hear and all the time I was thinking "for the love of god I'm not with these people". I just wanted to slap some of them upside the head to give them a reality check. I guess maybe we should have meets in a private place so as not to upset the public because if we can't be socially acceptable then we don't deserve to mingle with the general public. I actually left the meet early because I didn't want ot be with the furs that clearly have no idea that somethings should not be disscussed around regular folks. That said I did spend the rest of the afternoon with Urbanvixan, Draconder and some hippies giving out free hugs in the town centre because it was Valentines Day after all and you know what we only had one person who had a problem with it but even his daughter got a hug from one of us. But I have a feeling if fursuiters had given out free hugs it would have been a different story hell I know I wouldn't want my son or daughter hugged by someone in a fursuit especialy if they had a pair of shorts on. Maybe when all the immature furs grow up the fandom might become a better place but we would stil have to cull the retards that come after them.
Well I think I'm done now, phew.
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